fall19What happens when the “honeymoon” of your mentoring relationship feels like the falling leaves–or makes you feel like you’re drifting in the wind? Can you “re-attach” or should you just let go?  Here are some “crunch time’ tips:

—If you want to keep the relationship, pick up the phone and make a date for face-to-face time.

—Before you end it, be honest with each other about what your conversation accomplished or did not.

—Value candor: compare impressions about how you are doing with each other.

—Going forward, KEEP your calendar appointments.

—If you “fall off the tree” BE GRATEFUL for any time and attention you have been given and SAY SO.  You’d be surprised how that can matter in another season of your life.

About Mentoring Moments

Perrrone-Ambrose Associates specializes in assisting organizations of all sizes and missions to provide mentoring to their employees at every level. We accomplish this by creating mentoring systems and training strategies and programs for mentors and their mentees in establishing helping relationships. We started this blog with objective of sharing what we continue to discover about the mentoring process and by providing a clearinghouse for sharing our readers' experiences in the world of mentoring.

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