SPRING FORWARD

yellow_daffodils_-_floriade_canberra1After the doldrums of winter, many people want to “jump start” their careers.

Motivations are many: better work environment; greater reward; new degree on the horizon; new opportunities in the same organization.

There’s a particular triangle of talent that can really energize workers and that’s a good relationship between a manager, a mentee and the mentor.

Good managers recognize the underdeveloped abilities of their people and they can recommend mentors to help further the progress of their team members.

Aware mentees are the ones who can best identify areas in which they know or suspect they need growth.

Taking their developmental objectives to a good manager will help identify the sort of mentoring desired.

Gifted mentors provide strategic guidance to mentees, supporting both the manager and the growing mentee.

Mentors suggest readings, growth-oriented assignments and work in their own lessons of experience–

WITHOUT being problem-solvers for their mentees.

The solid energy triangle between the manager, mentee and mentor recognizes that it is the mentee

who’s the most in charge of his or her personal growth. Others can champion this adventure,

but it’s up to the mentee to “spring forward.”

REPAIR JOB FOR A NEW YEAR

 

potholes

Trust is a big word–and includes answers to these four questions:
—Do I trust the information?
—Do I trust the judgement?
—Do I trust the commitment to follow through?
—Do I trust the intentions TOWARD ME?
Sometimes the answers to these questions actually result in lowered trust levels–and breakdown in mid-journey.

No matter how hard we work at building and maintaining trust, situations arise that can cause “potholes” of damage.

Trust is a two-way street, so these repair suggestions work for both Mentors and Mentees along the high-way

of this unique  relationship called mentoring:
—When trust is damaged, be ready to work really hard to get it back.
—Take the first step by deciding to let the past go–for the sake of the relationship.
—Be honest about your own contribution to the problem, even it it’s embarrassing.
—Work together to establish realistic goals around renewed commitment.

Trust always has to be maintained; it takes both partners to keep it as a vital causeway in human endeavor.

GIFT TO SELF: BEING A MENTEE

giftFive little guides will help any mentee in any discipline grow as a professional and a person!
1. You are the driver of your career, YOU keep it alive and growing. You bring the energy and focus needed to accomplish your goal(s).
2. You pursue stimulating new opportunities; take new approaches; you want to broaden your perspective; you ask yourself what you learned from both errors and successes.
3. You build on the strengths you own. You construct a realistic foundation for long-term success.
4. You surpass your own comfort limits. You’re open when a mentor challenges your view of what is possible.
5. You value the unique opportunities that good mentoring brings. You know it’s rare to have a partnership dedicated just to your success.

Good mentoring IS A GIFT, with your name all over it!